Just...Get It Over!

Get it over and move on!

That's what you should do when your relationship is over! Maybe you're crying and whining, and maybe you're fucked up like all the time. But don't let it get so long. You have to get out!

I don't recommend you to turn the huts you feel into hatred, as some people can move on after they feel the contrary of what they previously did. Some of them. But I don't want it happen to me at least. 

Do whatever that can ease off your pain. You can go out with friends, make friends and create your new atmosphere. Wipe out the haze of your ex over your new world. Or maybe you can hook up with someone you barely new. That will be relieving. As my friend once told me that basically everybody is "hungry", so get your self feed and you'll be fine. Trust me! I mean, I have no idea why it works (most times) but it does! It really works!

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The Conjuring: A Must-See Based-On-True Story Horror Movie!

Like any other horror movie (Amytiville Horror and sorts of) this movie began with a family moving to country side in Rhode Island to a big cheap house. As you can guess, a big house with the cheap price means there is something wrong inside!

Carolyn and Roger Perron and their five girls moved to a country side and it all seemed like everything was fine, until a train of strange things happened. There were such bruised on Carolyn's body part. She was told that it's due to calcium deficiency but later on she'd find out the truth. The girls were haunted like every night. The clocks always stopped at 3.07 in the morning, music box with a kid,

and there was something wrong in the crypt. Concerning on what they're going through, Carolyn went ask Ed and Lorraine, a couple which were demonologists and dealing with exorcism, examining and other demonic stuff.

Lorraine told them that the area of the house were haunted by a demonic spirit named Bathsheba. Lorraine saw the kid named Rory and a women hanged in the backyard (they were all ghosts). SO CREEPY and things were getting worse! Bathsheba wanted to use Carolyn's body and get her killing her girls. 

Roger, Ed, Lorraine and their team had to work hard to evict Bathsheba out of Carolyn's body. Ed and Lorraine did exorcism and there was battle between demonic spirit and them. All was rushing like to  an end. Birds, so many birds, suddenly flied around and crashed the house. Carolyn screamed and shouted as hell as her body turns horrible. Crosses fell down and things were out of control. After those bad things, they finally could evict Bathsheba out of Carolyn's body.

Based on true story, this movie is a must-see! There are so many things we can learn from the movie, from science of the nature of spirit which some people are just skeptical with to how actually sincerity to help those needed will erase our dubiety of what we can actually do. This movie is horrible, but cool! Gotta watch!

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My Ramadan Story: Chapter 3

Banyak banget yang bisa diomongin tentang Ramadan. Yang buka bareng teman lah, yang sahur on the road lah, yang batal puasa lah, yang belanja Lebaran lah. Banyak deh! Tapi, masih ingat nggak sih waktu kita SD dulu? Puasa waktu SD jauh berbeda dengan waktu kita SMA atau kuliah. Kalau kuliah kita mau sahur, silahkan. Mau buka jam delapan pagi, silahkan. Mau nggak makan seharian karena nggak punya duit juga silahkan. Kalau waktu SD semua serba diatur. "Agak" ribet karena kemana-mana harus bawa buku. Nah, what I'm talking about here is Buku Kegiatan Ramadan waktu kita SD dulu. Seperti apa sih? Push the button!

Buku kegiatan Ramadan adalah semacam buku saku yang isinya tentang APAPUN selama Ramadan dan WAJIB diisi setiap halamannya dan DITANDATANGANI atau kamu akan BERUJUNG SIAL.
What's in it actually? Lots of things! Mulai jadwal sholat lima waktu selama sebulan penuh, jadwal sholat Jumat selama Ramadan, jadwal taraweh, catatan ceramah bapak ustad sehabis solat subuh, catatan khotbah di masjid, sholat Ied, catatan khotbah sholat Ied, dan pastinya KOLOM TANDA TANGAN.

Jadi setiap kita selesai melakukan kegiatan apapun yang berhubungan dengan Ramadan, kolom tandatangan harus diisi. Entah itu oleh orang tua, pak ustad di masjid, pak ustad di musholla, siapa pun. Sehabis sholat, minta tanda tangan orang tua. Sehabis taraweh, minta tanda tangan pak ustad. Sehabis baca Al-Qur'an, ditulis dulu baca surat apa, dari ayat berapa sampe ayat berapa, dan ditandatangani oleh pak ustad. Hari Jumat, kita ke masjid dan mencatat materi khotbah yang disampaikan pak ustad, dan ditandatangani pak ustad. Lebaran day apa lagi. Ketika yang lain ngebet pulang buat ngumpul dan sungkem kita diharuskan ngantri minta tanda tangan ke pak ustad. Kok gak sekalian aja semua yang ngasih kita angpao dimintain tanda tangan. Maksudku, semua serba tanda tangan. Mungkin ini baik juga untuk anak SD membiasakan diri cari tanda tangan biar mereka nanti nggak kaget pas orientasi di high school kalau disuruh minta tanda tangan ke senior-senior.
 
Terlepas dari semua kerumitan yang ada di dalam buku Ramadan, sebenarnya tujuannya adalah untuk mendidik siswa menjadi disiplin sejak dini. Dan buku kegiatan tersebut merupakan pendekatan yang baik untuk membentuk pola pikir anak untuk selalu sistematis dan lebih menghargai waktu. The thing is, how could it work? I mean, when we're trying to make someone discipline (in terms of religious activities, in this case) in their early ages, in the meantime though we impose them and moreover, we make them scared as we intimidate them in any way? Well, I'm not sure it would. They will do it simply cause they're scared of the bad scores given by the teachers when they don't. Some even more getting worse. They manipulate it all. They cheat. And it is not the best way out, I believe. And I did it too, sometimes. I mean, regarding the book thing, for any reason.


What about your stories? :)

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